we boiled down to
a cookie on a doorknob
neither of us turned
we boiled down to
a cookie on a doorknob
neither of us turned
it wasn’t the no
but the way you would say it
words dripping with want
placing my finger
on the pulse of an answer
that won’t beat for me
it played itself out
‘cause it had to, ‘cause it could
red rose left behind
from experience
I’ve learned that too much nothing
is never enough
the hike and the hill and the rock and the dusk
the stories that weren’t and were about us
the catch you made on the way down, like the easiest thing in the world
tell me, is it not allowed to be easy?
my dear fridge cricket
I thank you, at least, for not
choosing my bedroom
my dental hygienist chatted to me about
narcissists
last wednesday while she cleaned my teeth.
I nnnged and ahhhed and huhuhed and
thought about you.
how am I, you ask?
I’m humbly deferring all
questions to the wine
the sun is never better never wetter never right
I have one love, one only
and it’s night
soulmates finding soulmates
in the dark
under rocks
he’s not blind and
she’s not blonde
but it’s been two years, so hey
control showed up on my doorstep
broke the door down, knocked me over
ran up the stairs and sat in my chair
finished my book and sold it too
handed me what I wanted
as I reached out to take it
it took it right back
and it laughed
and it left
left me trampled in the empty entryway
I haven’t slept at all tonight
it could be the tickle in my head
or it could be the bed I’ve slept in
for fifteen years it feels the same
but tonight it whispers
“really, has anything changed?”
appealing to your selfish side
when you’d already strung him up
tied him to the wall and said you’re welcome
as he screamed for me
and oh how he would sing for me
and all the words he’d string for me
but arms in chains cannot hold anything
was to be as important
as you were to me
my cheekbone is tender from lying
on concrete, lying
in shallow wounds
lying
not lying.
I can’t offer you a smile
from across a room
can’t lie at the feet of your emptiness
and offer myself as food
for I am too large and too far
and too good at not lying
and I wish
for a moment
that I wasn’t.
and my hair is darker now
and the smiles, when they come
are different
but I see it
clear as a skeleton wearing skin
I see your clouds
and I sit beneath a shallow lake
and watch for rain.
you’re the only one
who can still knock me down with
the touch of a thought
it’s a big thing
monumental
and big things like this require
a certain amount
of gentleness
that isn’t hard for me
I can be gentle
in fact
I can be so gentle
with the things that I am holding
they don’t even know
they’re being held
so the question isn’t
can I do it
can I hold this thing
this monumental thing
can I hold it gently
and right?
of course I can
the question is
will it know?
will it feel my touch
my hands on its skin
its thick leathery indestructible
fragile delicate breakable skin
and will it break
with or without my touch?
my gentleness?
my anything?
with or without knowing
it was ever being held
together
ever being held by me
at all?
I wish I knew someone
whose mind danced like mine does
I wish I knew someone
who set me alight
I wish I knew someone
who knew how to know me
I wish I knew someone like you.
I never knew which
was worse – the falling apart
or the wanting to
I just realized
that I’ve been pretending like
I care for so long
I had forgotten
how much harder it is to
pretend that I don’t
a shallow impression
made on a surface both more and less pliable
than it used to be
than it should have been
smooth until the first crack of sunlight
other tools, they hammer, they bruise
but this shallow pool remains
the only indentation, sole crater on the moon
visible only to the touch and
never in the dark
an elbow on my leg
green eyes looking up
his skin is warm from a sun somewhere
and mine is cool from the sea
shaking with inevitability and the thought of altering course
a sticky thought, dipped in the rum
we found in the dinghy
the bright morning light dripping into the cracks, widening, deepening
The Who on a loop, seeking, seeking
a small indentation, salt water rushing in
too deep to stand in but not enough to sink
if only I knew how to float
there I am
lying in the rocking waves
with nothing but a boat
and a shallow impression filled with the sea
this little something
just sailed away; anything
meant to be will stay
forget and stay sane
or to remember and ache
that is the question
sometimes I forget
what it feels like
my skin is slick with coats of you
coats of lacquer coats of liquor
some layers blacker some layers thicker
coats of you that don’t make me bigger
they make me small, so small I can’t see
would you find me
if you looked?
I can’t remember which layers of you
you gave me and which ones I took
it won’t matter soon
I say (to help fall asleep)
unclenching my jaw
I’m made up of every me
that
I have ever been
including the one who once thought
she loved you
I hold her memories
I hold her heart
I know her sorrow, her unfiltered pain
I know the why behind every single choice
she ever made
and I see her foolishness
her stubborn trust
how she looked at you
the way she pictured us
and I can still feel
through the thrum of her heart
what it used to be like
to need you
we were once one
but we aren’t the same
so don’t be a fool and mistake my strength
for weakness
if no one was dishonest
then everyone would cry
right in the bright sunlight because
there’d be no place to hide
and who wants that?
to all the things that i can’t see
that i can’t know
that i’m not shown
lines and dots and spaces
endless spaces
curves and edges
all the shapes are forming words
that i can’t make out
that i don’t know how
and i hear the sounds
(the few you gave me)
turning into echoes fast
then all the echoes turning back
their sources lost then found again
(i can’t keep track)
and all the thinks and all the knows
flowing and curling and diving and rolling
shifting around all the pebbles of me
that make up the sand
that cradles the sea
so big and so deep
this unknown invisible ocean made of
you
you have nice lines
he said as he traced them
his body next to mine
she said nothing
tracing them with her eyes
as I twirled a few feet or
a couple worlds away
so if he offered to light up your skin
to shock your bones and make them glow
to turn you to fire and
paint you red and
rip you from cold clinging hands of the dead
and worship you in a palace of flesh
don’t tell me you wouldn’t say yes.
It was a smile that ended the world
yours, your eyes, and the look in mine
your hand on my neck, a few spoken words
the fuse was lit and
we saw it ignite in
a blast that no one else heard.
The whole thing aflame from a glance and a touch
you fled as it burned while
I stood there and watched the wreckage, entranced
the flames as they danced
the beautiful chaos, the burning expanse
I stood right there and watched the world shake
and all I could see was a giant, heaping
mess of a non-mistake.
you tried to burn it and
burn it you did but
it didn’t disappear
it only dissipated
fire to ash, fell to the earth
but smoke to air, now it’s everywhere
you thought this was better
you thought this would work
fire to ash and smoke to air
but now it’s everywhere you look
and you can’t even see it.
it suited you so well I never knew if it was something you chose to put on or something you couldn’t take off
you gave me a toothbrush and I promised I’d be back
it wasn’t a lie; I thought I might this time
but then I got my way
and he got in the way
and then time got away
and everything was gone and so was I
but you still check in now and then
to see if I’ll keep my promise
to hear some more of my silence
and you’ve never mentioned the toothbrush
but I wonder if it’s still there
I wonder if it’s still wet, still waiting
still dripping tiny beads of guilt, the drops
not big enough to hear from here
not loud enough, really, to make any sound at all
such a large amount
of me I’ve spent on something
as tiny as you
of having something
before you realize just
how much you want it
I see that you don’t want to mention her
as if I don’t already know
but there’s no reason to hide it
unless you think there is
I don’t see one as you pass me the cue
as I aim and shoot
and ask you
to tell me about her
and you do
because there’s no reason not to
I hear no regret
but I see your eyes
and I look away like I didn’t
even you can see that it’s fine with me
and maybe that’s what isn’t fine about it
you come around and
I remember what it feels
like not to settle
I used to see us standing there
a double of you and a double of me
in the future that was always coming but never came
now I see nothing, behind or in front
there are no doubles and there is no us
and even your shadow (he held on so long)
dissolved in my hand in the sun
so many reasons not to stay
and yet you did
because you were a fool
not enough reasons to walk away
and so you don’t
because you’re you
It’s golden, this haven
I wrap it around me
it glows as it settles
it fits like it knew
the shape of your arrows
so sharp and narrow
I don’t recognize them
I poise to fight them
but this gleaming solace
will not let me go
it won’t let me send them back like I want to
(in moments of weakness I’m just like you)
it won’t send them flying back
won’t let them breed
it won’t let them pierce holes of you into me
instead it just shines, so bright that I’m blinded
and they disappear
the hate unrequited
the pain that it brings goes unfelt by me
in my golden peace
I no longer see
your poison arrows
your blackened bow
raised with intention
your precious weapon
all that you know
I pity the thoughts inside your head
that see only darkness.
I soak it up now
lizard sprawled in the heat
the warmth a reminder of
how cold my bones
like shivering drums
they were, they are, they beat
loud they become when I forget
but not for long.
I fall to the rock like
gravity
without it I shake
I shiver and beat
the warmth I remember, the work and the heat
but cold asks for nothing and
doesn’t mind me.
then I catch myself
giving you the benefit
of well-deserved doubt
And I was a prize you won ’cause I let you
again and again and I
didn’t know then
that I’d never get you the way that you had me
you had me, you had me
you had me so wholly
your eyes wrapped around me
your lips would control me and I
didn’t know that your heart couldn’t hold me
I didn’t know it would never know me
never want me
never be
anything but a lack, you see
I was the prize you won ’cause I let you and
you never knew
never knew what you had.
cold on the shore
dripping and shaking
salt in my hair and my eyes and my lungs
that was the sea
for a moment I’d swum
and you wanna know what?
it was nothing like you
nothing like floundering, drowning and blue
in a puddle.
all of it in me
all of it over me
here to stay, here in my hands
and here I still am
giving it all away